Growing up I always wanted to be a Mum and I also had a passion to be a child care teacher (that didn't happen). It's actually funny I use to think if I could be a childcare teacher I could take the kids to work with me and would have the best of both worlds.
I didn't become a Child Care Teacher but I got granted my biggest wish....... To be a Mum to 3 beautiful kids and be a stay at home Mum.
I am thankful to my Hubby that I can stay at home with my children.
It isn't as easy as what others think though....
Stay at home Mum's and Dad's are very lucky to be with their children all day but it is hard. I don't sit on the lounge all day watching Netflix..... I'm actually running around like a lunatic trying to get as much as I can done. Yessss...... The bin is still out from 2 days ago the chooks aren't shut up, the clothes have been washed 3 times and I have the drier on. I'm not perfect but I am me.
Say if you had the chance of playing a sport, would you put it in the 2 hard basket to take 3 kids to training. That's what I was like. I have decided to just go with it. Take them to footy training, to Footy games, to soccer and everything else you do. Yes.... it may not be as relaxing if someone could look after them but in the long run (now looking in) it is awesome for them to be around you in different places, plus they actually enjoy it and they go to bed easier lol.
My advise is to know that you are not alone. It is hard. It is hard to feel like you are not doing your bit.... but you are. You are amazing and make sure you keep doing the things you want to do.
Hope you may get something out of my bubbling
YOU CAN DO IT xoxo